Bullying culture facts for kids
Bullying culture is when bullying becomes a normal part of how people act and treat each other in a group, like a school or a team. It's about someone using their power to hurt or control others.
This kind of culture often means that people think in a "win/lose" way. This means they believe that for one person to succeed, another person has to fail. It also encourages people to try and dominate others or be aggressive.
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What is Bullying Culture?
A bullying culture is more than just a few people bullying others. It's when bullying behaviors are common and accepted. This can happen in many places, like schools, sports teams, or even online groups.
In this culture, people might not speak up against bullying. They might even think it's normal or that the person being bullied somehow deserves it. This makes it hard for victims to get help.
How Bullying Culture Works
Bullying culture often involves a few key ideas:
- Power Imbalance: Bullies use their social power, physical strength, or even digital skills to control others.
- "Win/Lose" Thinking: People in a bullying culture might believe that life is a competition. They think that to be strong or popular, they must make others feel weak or unpopular.
- Domination and Aggression: This culture encourages people to try and control others. They might use aggressive words or actions to get their way.
Signs of a Bullying Culture
It can be hard to spot a bullying culture at first. But there are some signs to look for.
Common Behaviors
In a bullying culture, you might see:
- Teasing and Name-Calling: People often make fun of others or call them mean names.
- Excluding Others: Some people might purposely leave others out of groups or activities.
- Spreading Rumors: False stories are shared to hurt someone's reputation.
- Physical Pushing or Shoving: Even small physical acts can be part of a bullying culture.
- Cyberbullying: Using phones or computers to send mean messages or spread rumors.
Impact on People
When bullying is common, it affects everyone.
- Victims: People who are bullied might feel sad, scared, or lonely. They might not want to go to school or participate in activities.
- Bystanders: People who see bullying happen but don't stop it might feel guilty or helpless. They might also worry about becoming a target themselves.
- Bullies: Even bullies can be affected. They might learn that being mean is how to get what they want, which can cause problems for them later.
Stopping Bullying Culture
It takes effort from everyone to change a bullying culture.
What You Can Do
If you see bullying, there are things you can do:
- Speak Up: If it's safe, tell the bully to stop.
- Get Help: Tell a trusted adult, like a teacher, parent, or counselor.
- Support the Victim: Be kind to the person being bullied. Let them know you care.
- Be a Friend: Include others and stand up for what's right.
How Schools Can Help
Schools play a big role in stopping bullying culture.
- Clear Rules: Schools should have clear rules against bullying and make sure everyone knows them.
- Support Systems: There should be ways for students to report bullying safely and get help.
- Education: Schools can teach students about kindness, respect, and how to prevent bullying.
Remember, everyone deserves to feel safe and respected. By working together, we can help create a kinder environment for everyone.
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A Centers for Disease Control and Prevention graphic presenting school anti-bullying guidelines.
See also
In Spanish: Acoso psicológico para niños
