Clique facts for kids
A clique is a small group of people who spend a lot of time together. They often share similar interests, hobbies, or ways of thinking. While the word "clique" can sometimes describe any close-knit group of friends, it's often used when a group is seen as exclusive or unwelcoming to others. Cliques can form among young people, like in schools, but also among adults in different social or professional settings.
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What is a Clique?
A clique is more than just a group of friends. It's a social group that often has clear boundaries, meaning it can be hard for new people to join. Members of a clique usually have strong bonds and spend a lot of time together. They might have their own inside jokes, shared activities, or even a particular style of dress.
How Cliques Form
Cliques often form because people are drawn to others who are like them. This could be based on:
- Shared interests, like sports, video games, or music.
- Similar backgrounds or experiences.
- A desire to feel safe and accepted.
- The need for a sense of belonging.
Roles Within a Clique
Most cliques have different roles that members play. These roles can change over time, but some are very common.
Leaders
In almost every clique, there are leaders. These are the people who often:
- Make decisions for the group.
- Suggest activities or plans.
- Influence what the group thinks or does.
- Are looked up to by other members.
Followers
Followers are members who tend to go along with the leader's ideas. They support the group's activities and decisions. They enjoy being part of the group and often value the sense of belonging it provides.
Outcasts
Sometimes, a clique might have people they don't include or who used to be part of the group but are no longer liked. These people are sometimes called outcasts. This can happen if someone:
- Disagrees with the group.
- Develops different interests.
- Is seen as no longer fitting in.
Being an outcast can be a difficult experience, as it means being excluded from a social group.
Cliques in Different Settings
Cliques are not just found in schools. They can appear in many different places where people gather.
Cliques Among Young People
In schools, cliques are very common. Students often form groups based on:
- Shared classes or extracurricular activities.
- Similar social status or interests.
- Friendship groups that become exclusive.
These groups can provide support and friendship, but they can also sometimes lead to feelings of exclusion for others.
Cliques Among Adults
Adults also form cliques, though they might not call them that. For example:
- Workplace groups: Colleagues who always eat lunch together or socialize outside of work.
- Social clubs: Members of a club who form a tight-knit inner circle.
- Political groups: Sometimes, groups of politicians form tight alliances. These groups work together to achieve common goals or support each other's ideas. They might have shared beliefs or strategies.
Positive and Negative Sides of Cliques
While having a close group of friends is important, cliques can have both good and bad aspects.
Positive Aspects
- Support: Members can offer emotional support and help each other.
- Belonging: Being part of a clique can give a strong sense of identity and belonging.
- Shared interests: It's fun to share hobbies and activities with people who understand you.
Negative Aspects
- Exclusion: Cliques can make others feel left out or lonely.
- Pressure: Members might feel pressure to act or think a certain way to stay in the group.
- Limited perspectives: Being only with people who are similar can limit new ideas or friendships.
Dealing with Cliques
If you encounter cliques, whether you're in one or not, here are some things to remember:
- Be yourself: Don't change who you are just to fit into a group.
- Be open: Try to be friendly to everyone, not just a select few.
- Seek diverse friendships: Having friends from different groups can enrich your life.
- Focus on your interests: Join clubs or activities where you can meet people who share your passions.
