Decision-making facts for kids
Decision making is how we choose what to do when we have different options. Every time you make a decision, you pick one path out of many. This choice can be an action you take or an idea you form. Sometimes, people make good choices very quickly without even realizing how they did it. This is different from older ideas that said we always think very carefully about every choice.
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Why Decisions Matter
Making decisions is a big part of our lives. From what to eat for breakfast to what subjects to study, we make choices all the time. Good decisions can help us reach our goals and feel happy. Poor decisions can sometimes lead to problems or regrets. Learning how to make good choices is a very useful skill for everyone.
Types of Decisions
Decisions can be simple or complex.
Simple Decisions
Simple decisions are often made quickly and don't have big consequences.
- What shirt to wear today.
- Which snack to choose.
- What game to play next.
These choices usually don't need a lot of thought.
Complex Decisions
Complex decisions need more thought and can have a bigger impact on your future.
- Which high school to attend.
- Whether to join a sports team or a club.
- How to solve a disagreement with a friend.
These decisions often involve many factors and might affect others too.
How We Make Decisions
Even though decisions can be different, there's often a general process we follow, even if we don't realize it.
1. Understand the Problem
First, you need to know what decision you need to make. What is the situation? What are you trying to achieve or solve?
- Example: You want to buy a new video game, but you only have enough money for one.
2. Find Your Options
Next, think about all the possible choices you have. Don't just pick the first idea that comes to mind.
- Example: Your options are Game A, Game B, or saving your money for a different game later.
3. Think About the Ups and Downs
For each option, think about the good things (pros) and the bad things (cons) that might happen. What are the possible results of each choice?
- Example:
- Game A: Pros - all your friends have it, Cons - it's expensive.
- Game B: Pros - it's cheaper, Cons - none of your friends play it.
- Save money: Pros - you can buy a better game later, Cons - you don't get a new game now.
4. Choose the Best Option
After looking at the pros and cons, pick the option that seems best for you. This might be the one that helps you most or causes the fewest problems.
- Example: You decide to buy Game A because playing with friends is important to you.
5. Take Action and Learn
Once you've made your decision, put it into action. After a while, think about how it turned out. Did it work well? What did you learn from this decision? This helps you make better choices in the future.
- Example: You buy Game A and have fun playing with friends. You learn that playing with friends is a key factor for you when buying games.
What Influences Our Decisions?
Many things can affect how we make choices.
Information
Having enough information is key. If you know more about your options, you can make a more informed choice.
- Example: Reading reviews before buying a new gadget.
Emotions
Our feelings play a big role. When we are happy, sad, or angry, it can change how we think about our options. Sometimes, strong emotions can make it harder to think clearly.
- Example: Making a quick decision when you're upset might not be the best choice.
Values and Beliefs
Your personal values (what's important to you) and beliefs guide your choices. If honesty is important, you'll likely make choices that are honest.
- Example: Choosing to tell the truth even if it's difficult.
Other People
Friends, family, and even social media can influence your decisions. Sometimes, we make choices based on what others are doing or what they expect from us.
- Example: Choosing a certain brand of shoes because all your friends have them.
Making Better Decisions
Here are some tips to help you make good choices:
- Don't Rush: For important decisions, take your time.
- Ask for Advice: Talk to trusted adults or friends. They might have different ideas or experiences.
- Think Long-Term: Consider the future effects of your choice, not just the immediate ones.
- Learn from Mistakes: Everyone makes bad decisions sometimes. The important thing is to learn from them and do better next time.
Related topics
External links
- Emotional and Decision Making Lab, Carnegie Mellon, EDM Lab
See also
In Spanish: Toma de decisiones para niños
