Bridesman facts for kids
A bridesman is a special person who helps the bride on her wedding day. Think of them like a bridesmaid, but they are a close male friend or relative of the bride. They walk down the aisle during the wedding ceremony, just like bridesmaids do.
What is a Bridesman?
A bridesman is a male friend or family member chosen by the bride to be part of her wedding party. They support the bride and help with wedding tasks. This role is similar to a bridesmaid, but for a male friend. They often walk with the bridal party during the ceremony.
The History of Bridesmen
The idea of a bridesman might seem new, but it has a long history. The term was mentioned in a book called Shirley by Charlotte Brontë in 1859. In the story, which was set in 1811–1812, young men named Henry Sympson and Martin Yorke were called "bridesmen" as part of the wedding group.
However, the term has an even older past. Around the 1200s, in some European Jewish communities, a "bridesman" was actually a friend of the groom. This person was very important. They would pay for and arrange the wedding using their own money. The groom would then pay them back later. This was a huge honor and showed a very strong male friendship. It was a lot like what a best man does today.
Bridesmen Around the World
In some countries, the tradition of a bridesman is still very popular. For example, in Hungary, the bridesman is called a "vőfély" (pronounced "vuh-fay") or sometimes "vőfény." The "vőfély" acts as the "spokesman" for the groom. This shows how old traditions can continue to be important in modern weddings.
