Bullying facts for kids
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Bullying is when someone repeatedly shows rude or mean behavior to another person. The people who do this are called bullies. Bullying doesn't always have to be physical. It can also be things people say or do online.
Bullying also happens when others see it but don't help. When people who witness bullying step in, they can make a big difference. Bullying isn't just direct meanness. It also happens when people hide it from adults like teachers, ignore it, or even help the bully get away with it. School staff try to stop bullying, even when they don't see it, because they know it can be easy to hide. Some places even have laws against bullying.
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Where Bullying Happens
Bullying can happen in many places. It often takes place at school, at home, or online. When bullying happens on the internet, it's called cyberbullying.
Bullies use different ways to hurt others. These can include:
- Scaring others: This is called intimidating.
- Being overly pushy: This is like a "steamroller" tactic.
- Making others feel worthless: This is called devaluing.
- Threatening or forcing others: This is like "arm-twisting."
Sometimes, bullying is a mix of these different ways. For example, someone might try to control what others say. If they don't like it, they might try to "run over" or bully that person.
Bullying also involves misusing power. This can be making comments or threats that make someone feel unsafe. For example, a bully might make someone feel unsure about themselves. It can also involve changing rules or goals so that someone can't succeed.
Why Bullying Happens
Bullying happens for different reasons. Sometimes, a person might not be getting the attention they want. Or they might be going through a tough time at home. They might want to control someone else.
Another reason is that the bully might not feel good about themselves. They bully others to feel more powerful. When a bully wants attention or to show off, they might start by saying mean things. This can sometimes lead to physical meanness.
How to Stop Bullying
If you see bullying, there are things you can do.
- Speak up: Tell the bully to stop.
- Get help: Tell a trusted adult like a teacher, parent, or counselor.
- Support the person being bullied: Let them know you care.
- Don't join in: Never laugh or encourage the bully.
Remember, everyone deserves to feel safe and respected.
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A Centers for Disease Control and Prevention graphic presenting school anti-bullying guidelines.
See also
In Spanish: Acoso psicológico para niños
