Bullying facts for kids
Bullying is when someone shows rude or mean behavior to another person. The people who do bullying are called bullies. Bullying is directed repeatedly towards specific and general targets or subjects. Bullying can be defined in many different ways depending on its context. Bullying doesn't have to be physical. It can be things that people say.
The subject of bullying includes picking on people that people see what happens but they don't do anything about it. When witnesses know what to do and they do it, the action becomes part of a process which makes a bad situation better.
Bullying is not only violence against the bullied person. It's also bullying when other people hide it from those in power (teachers, bosses), other people who see it ignore it, or when the bully is helped to get away with it. Bullying can also be saying mean words said to people face to face.
School teachers and staff have tried to learn ways to stop bullying even when they do not see it themselves. They have learned that bullying can be easy to hide.
Some US states have laws against it.
Bullying can happen at school, work, at home, on the internet (cyber-bullying) or somewhere else.
A purpose is part of what makes bullying what it is. The process of bullying develops in many ways, including
- intimidating (to scare) tactics
- steamroller (determined) tactics
- devaluing (to put down) tactics
- arm-twisting (threat or force) tactics
Bullying may be a combination of one or more of these tactics (techniques). For example, Lance Armstrong explained "Yes, I was a bully. I was a bully in the sense that I tried to control the narrative and if I didn't like what someone said I turned on them." In other words, when someone said something Armstrong didn't like, "We ran over her, we bullied her."
Bullying behavior includes the misuse (harm) of power or position and making comments or threats about job security. The person that is getting bullied then feels insecure (not sure) about themselves.
Bullying also includes moving the goalposts by setting objectives which subtly change and cannot be defined or explained in ways that can be reached.
Culture of Bullying
Bullying happens for a reason. The person is either not getting the attention they want or they are going through a family struggle and want to control someone else. Another possible reason, is that the person does not feel confident about themselves so they bully others to make themselves feel more powerful. Therefore, when the person that is the bully wants to get attention and show who's the best. They will start by saying mean things to students at school, that could possibly result in violence.
Many people wonder how to deal with bullying. Well the best thing to do is go tell a trusted adult or parent if the child is getting bullied.
Somethings that may help when you face a bully is to thank them or smile to them. Instead of acting like something is wrong.
Its good to be strong but if the bully tries to start a fight don't join them.
Quaden Bayles, a nine year old from Australia with dwarfism had been dealing with bullies at school. His mother uploaded a video of Quaden to the internet after he had been bullied one day to raise awareness of what the affects of bullying has on people. Quaden Bayles is the face of Stand Tall 4 Dwarfism, a charity set up by his mother to raise awareness and stop bullying. The importance of kindness and valuing differences is the central message.
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Banner in a campaign against bullying in Cefet-MG.
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