Elopement (marriage) facts for kids
An elopement is a marriage where two people get married in a very private way, often without a big ceremony or many guests. It's like a secret or very quiet wedding. Sometimes, couples choose to elope to avoid the stress and high costs of a large, traditional wedding.
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What is Eloping?
Eloping means a couple decides to get married quickly and simply, usually just the two of them, or with only a few close friends or family members present. Instead of a big party with many guests, they might go to a courthouse, a special location, or even a different country to say their vows. It's a way to focus on their love and commitment without all the fuss of a large event.
Why Do People Elope?
There are many reasons why a couple might choose to elope instead of having a traditional wedding:
- Saving Money: Big weddings can be very expensive. Eloping can save a lot of money, which couples can then use for other things, like a down payment on a house or a special trip.
- Privacy: Some people prefer a very private moment for their marriage. Famous people, for example, sometimes elope to avoid the paparazzi and media attention.
- Simplicity: Planning a large wedding can be very stressful and take a lot of time. Eloping is often much simpler and quicker to arrange.
- Family Situations: Sometimes, if families don't agree about the marriage, eloping can be a way for the couple to get married without causing conflict.
- Cultural Traditions: In some parts of the world, like Bali, elopement is actually a traditional or preferred way for couples to get married.
How Elopements Happen
Even though elopements are private, they still need to follow legal rules to be official. Couples usually need to get a marriage license from the government. They might then have a small ceremony performed by an officiant, like a judge or a minister. Sometimes, they travel to a beautiful place, like a mountain or a beach, to make their vows.
Elopement Through History
Eloping isn't a new idea. In the past, it often meant running away to get married, especially if parents didn't approve. These stories are often found in old books and movies. Today, eloping is less about running away and more about choosing a simple, meaningful way to get married that fits the couple's wishes. It's a modern choice for many couples who want to celebrate their love in a personal and intimate way.
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A humorous, staged photograph (circa 1904) depicting an attempted elopement with clichéd ladder to the prospective bride's upstairs bedroom. The bride has fallen down the ladder, knocking over her beau and waking her father.
