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Jessie Benton Freemont letter to Christopher Carson, 1861 (NBY 16141)
Letter with a mourning border c. 1861

Mourning stationery is a letter, envelope, or calling card with a black border, used to signify that a person is experiencing mourning. It was first used in the 17th century in Europe and was most popular during the Victorian era, during which it was also used in the United States and West Africa.

The border may start thick and thin over time, or the thickness may depend on the level of bereavement. For example, the death of a child may call for a thicker border than the death of a cousin. After receiving a letter, recipients were expected to pay to receive it. Social norms expected that the mourning period was to be displayed in both public and private. After the death of a reigning monarch, a mourning border may be placed on public notices, newspapers, and other government stationery.

Convention was that children did not use mourning stationery. If seals are used with mourning stationery, they are conventionally black. Black borders may also be used on letters announcing an execution.

History

Upon the death of Queen Victoria in 1901, mourning stationery was sold in many stores to honour her. Nineteenth century American newspapers used a black border when announcing a death.

After the death of Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh in 2021, Queen Elizabeth II chose not to use the black border to signify mourning. This was a break in tradition which started in 1861 by Queen Victoria after the death of Prince Albert. Despite Queen Elizabeth's break from tradition, Prince Charles and Camilla continued to use the mourning border.

See also

  • In memoriam card
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