Significant other facts for kids

A significant other (often shortened to SO) is a way to describe someone who has a very close and important relationship with another person. This term is used on purpose so it doesn't say exactly what kind of relationship it is.

It refers to a person's partner, but it doesn't tell you if they are married, dating, or what their sexual orientation is. Other words that mean something similar, but are more specific, include: sweetheart, better half, spouse, domestic partner, lover, soulmate, or life partner.

What is a Significant Other?

A significant other is someone who is very important in your life. This term is used when you want to talk about a close partner without giving too many details. It's a general way to describe someone you share a deep connection with.

Why Use This Term?

People use "significant other" because it's a very open and inclusive term. It works for many different kinds of relationships. It doesn't matter if people are married, living together, or just in a serious dating relationship. It also doesn't focus on whether the relationship is romantic or not, or on the gender of the people involved.

Who Can Be a Significant Other?

Anyone who plays a major role in your life can be considered a significant other. This often means a romantic partner, but the term is broad. It simply means someone who is very important to you and your well-being.

How Is the Term Used?

The term "significant other" is often used in formal situations. For example:

• When you get an invitation to a wedding or a party, it might say "and significant other." This means you can bring your partner, no matter what your relationship status is.
• Hospitals or other official places might use it. They might say, "You may be accompanied for your appointment by a significant other." This allows you to bring a supportive person with you.

Sometimes, people also use "relevant other" to mean the same thing.

More Than Just a Partner

In fields like psychology and sociology, "significant other" can also mean someone who has a big influence on a person's life. This could be a parent, a teacher, or a close friend. It's someone whose opinions and actions really shape who you are.

Where Did the Term Come From?

The first known use of the term "significant other" was in the United States. It has become a common phrase around the world to describe important relationships.

Images for kids

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  An American soldier kisses a woman described as his "significant other" before going to Afghanistan.

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  This chart shows how a child's dependence on others changes over time, and how acceptance or rejection by a significant person can affect them.